Without a True Self and Love for your Inner Being, There is No Real Truth

Life is very confusing much of the time. We are constantly shrouded in some kind of fear or guilt. This leaves us in an emotional state of unrest. Of course, the unrest will give us anxiety or some form of depression. This is because most humans do not know their real identity. Many are hiding behind the masks of conditioned love. That kind of love is dependent on behavior or works. Of course, no human has perfect behavior or works so they are constantly at risk for judgment.

Being under the influence of unsure of who you are can be very oppressive and co-dependent on others and their opinions. If you are a people pleaser, you will try to make yourself adapt to others’ wishes for you. If you are able to toss off others’ opinions, there is still plenty of judgment living inside  you from the past that will keep rising up from inner energy we call emotion. That emotion is reactive because it arises out of our subconscious or nervous system that remembers feelings from the past.

Gaining an understanding of HOW God sees you and WHO you are to Perfect LOVE (that is not judging your human behaviors as much as people think) is the way to get on a new track. It requires seeking God’s Love and connecting heart to heart with the ONE who created you. God has the map to your true self and He desires to connect through the heart, not through your behaviors!

Keep seeking that inner self and let go of how others see you in order to receive the truth in love that will set you free from spiritual adultery. When we value others’ opinions more than God’s, we are committing negative feelings to ourselves through a spirit that is adulterous and untrue. When God’s love shines through, you feel truth and you know you are not perfect, but you are perfectly loved in spite of your imperfections!!! This love will grow as you push out the old lies that drove the old behaviors.

It is such a joyous process to be living out of a self that is able to receive love!

Blessings,

Susan

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ONLY LOOKING BACK TO CLEAR THE PAST PAINS

Many people spend their lives living in reverse. They keep looking back while trying to live in the present. This IS the human way. It is the way of polarity and keeps us thinking in fear and lack-lacking what was always lacking-not feeling good enough and not fitting in. Both of those human paths keep betraying us over and over. WE are living under an influence of negative vision set up for us by any humans from the past who did not, and could not, treat us fairly or preciously.

Living in the Present means living in the WHO you are now with the Presence of Knowing your true identity and what God’s Love is saying about you. Under this influence, you need only visit the past to clean the closets that you shut and stuffed with pains of injustice and woundedness. These closets have a way of pushing open when you do not want them to (like thinking negative thoughts or saying those things out loud to others). We call these projections because they project out from our dark closets and cause us to see through the filter of the past wound.

When you are no longer wound around a wound, you can keep yourself present and updated on your current status that you are rising above those past wounds. The Spiritual Life is about being able to mature under the influence of Holy and Perfect Love that casts our old fears and spells that keep you in bondage to them. Looking back to allow LOVE to heal fears and trusting in faith that LOVE will conquer all the old skeletons gives you a new frame or lens to see and envision the BEST future you can imagine.

So, clean out the wounds and negative treatments from the past one day at a time while keeping present in mind, body (heart) and spirit of the present. Listen to ONE voice….the highest voice that Resounds all loving SOUNDS because it comes from the SOURCE of All that is LOVE-God!

Journey back to the Home you came from in human from only to assess the damage done to your spirit, and begin to journey into an amazing homecoming of well-inner being arms. The arms of God WILL treat you as you were planned to be treated all along—as a Spiritual Being!

Blessings,

Susan

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HOW DO I KNOW MY TRUE SELF?

Many people live their whole lives behind the mask as I have written about before in my blogs. In my book, MURTURE, I devote a chapter to the question of “who am I really?” Most people struggle to know the answer and that is an indicator that we humans may have “some” ideas about our inner being but are not in touch with all its parts so we rely on performance, roles, or others ideas of ourself. WE may also have set up a false self that protects a huge inner portion of us so we begin to think our false self is the real self.

Given all of these things, how do you go about finding a whole and integrated true entity within?  It does require some internal digging. The main room inside all humans is the unconscious room where all the stuff of the past is jammed in together: good, bad and ugly! This is why most people do not explore it. It is filled with pain, innocence, vulnerability and some scary events that we felt shame or guilt or fear around. Those feelings were unpleasant so we rerouted our brain to avoid them. This is why it is unconscious. We actually forgot we did that. So, while it was a good survivor skill, we tucked away some really good treasures in among those painful feelings.

The feeling of not being good enough is inside all of us and leads us to hiding our true self. This rejected part of us was made from the dictates of the external world coming at us when we were little and afraid. Since childhood is a time of being told right from wrong much of the time, children learn to hide their imperfect feelings in one way or another. This causes a whole spectrum of unconscious feelings they do not understand. Multiple things will happen that leave a child feeling abandoned and have negative feelings about their true self.

This true self is actually inside in good shape because it did get protected once we decide to go exploring. The problem is, however, all the bad memories that are also still in tact from the way we hid them at the time. WE do need both that pain and the treasure to combine and give us our self back and find joy as we begin living out of the reality of the authentic parts of us rather than masking and pretending so we end up feeling badly much of the time.

Good news! The ONE who made us is God. God wants us to be free to be in truth so we have an automatic, Divine and loving perfect partner to go exploring. When we listen and feel guided by God’s love for us, there is so much help, counsel, comfort and healing that happens, it is hard to believe it. It is also hard to believe we ever thought we needed to hide our beautiful inner being in the first place. The process may take awhile but it is well worth it. Get a journal and begin asking questions from the past to yourself and write down your thoughts. I describe the process and the path into your unconscious being that will reveal the real you in my book, MURTURE.

Awaken Your True Self so you can continue maturing that and grow into spiritual maturity!!!!

 

Blessings,

Susan

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GOD IS A GOD OF LOVE AND IS REAL LOVE IN THE SPIRIT REALM IN YOU

IDENTITY: WHO is the leader of what you do? Good question, right? 

I know so many people who run around “doing” like a chicken without a head or like a walking head. IN other words, they are disconnected. What are they really disconnected from? THEMSELVES is the answer. No human can be whole and integrated without knowing WHO they really are and what their worth and value is built on. YOU can try to build your worth and value on performances but that often gets tiring and you just get busier and busier as you try to keep up with that driver. You can make up stuff about your worth and value or you can even lie, but you are still not an HONEST person who honors a WHO. So, what is identity built upon?

Your identity has a base of love from your Maker and what HE says about you. YOUR Maker is God and you are created in HIS IMAGE. Yes, that is right! You came right out of the mind and heart of God. That gives you tremendous worth and value and inherent greatness!!!

What your earth parents and others tell you is known as human conditions of value or love based on conditions that are external. YOU need to base your WHO on your BASE COMMANDER. He is in charge of Real Love and the spirit of real love in you. When you begin to see that the value of the spirit of God in you is not dependent on any human “who” or human “do,” you are free to get REAL and drop the pretenses given you by others. BTW, those pretenses make you act tense and give you anxiety and depression because they are not necessarily true for the REAL YOU!

When you use the system I have written about in my book called MURTURE, you get a new spiritual creature to take over your inner being that is based on the fabulous masterpiece God made in you AND is free of the bondages of negative thinking and fake niceness or any false belief systems. You wake up from drama and trauma living and get to be REAL. You step up into the LIGHT of enlightenment into a free and easier way of living through the Power of God’s Spirit ALIVE in you.

Living free in your true self with the spirit of God leading and directing truth and the REAL YOU, a “DO” or purpose also is revealed as you evolve into more of your own inner reality way of living. Does this happen overnight? NO, but all good things take time to “work out.” If you wanted to train your physical body to better habits, it would take time. The spiritual Journey is actually easier because God’s Perfect Love is casting and directing all the resistors to leave or moving them out of the way. You begin to think in alignment with truth and the journey is no longer spent wasting energy on naysayers or negative energies like it used to be.

BEGIN TO PERCEIVE GOD AS IN YOU WITH REAL LOVE READY TO FEED THE REAL YOU!

Blessings,

Susan

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RESET YOUR COMMUNICATION DASHBOARD TO MATCH INNER CORE BEING

In my last blog, I wrote about communication and how important it is to be in touch with your roots and identity. I continue on that same these today with the premise that we must all keep resetting that inner communication thinking “self to deep inner core self.” That core self contains your seeds of greatness and if you are not communicating with that dashboard, you will be constantly losing inner connection.

How can you stay consistently in conscious contact with your true inner core self? Well, that is a great question! It is simple but can be complicated when we do not have a good sense of our inner great spirit. The spirit of us is where the seeds of greatness lie. They are imbedded in our sweet and pure innocent self. This core is like any seed, dormant, but will grow when watered and nurtured with the right nourishment and vital ingredients. So, first you have to believe in yourself. BELIEVING is the the first step in receiving healthy nurture. If your humanly conditioned self was tore down with lies and poor nurture, it may be hard to believe you have any worth and value. Your inner seed is made of incorruptible worth and value and does not depend on what any human says or has done to you.

Inner seeds of greatness come from the Divine and are, therefore, perfect in spirit. They are pure and have not been contaminated. They will be activated by FAITH in God and believing in His HOLY Spirit. Once you have the Holy Spirit for a partner, you can begin to agree with all God says to you and about you. Anything unloving or unkind or blaming and shaming or causing you fear is not coming from God. God promotes love and has the BEST thoughts for you and about you. This is where you can RESET constantly.

When you read Scripture (Holy Bible), you find all the verses of how you are created in God’s image (as are all His children) and that you were known in spirit by God before you were conceived in the womb. You will read that God is not distant and angry but a part of you inside that can be watered and fed truth from HIS WORDS. When you do the reading, HE does the seeding and feeding and grows you into a new creature. You will still physically look the same, but your spirit will begin to change you inside out. That means your mind, your spirit, your soul and your body will be made new. Your soul and heart got wounded in your human nature so you need a new heart of love that will connect and heal your soul scars. This is called inner healing or bottom healing of your roots and the Spirit of God will change your mind and use your brain for HIS WAY of thinking so you get a renewed mindset.

All of this newness changes communication patterns and constantly refreshes your identity so you remember WHO you are and take a look at your new creature takeover and growth out of that core self. When you align with God’s Word and His Thoughts about you and let HIS love nurture, MURTURE happens. You merge with His nature in you and you EMERGE and evolve into a loved and loving creature run by this POWER of the Divine. You are in ONE connection with God. It is like Wi-fi except you are always connected unless you disconnect from Truth or decide to go back to old ways. Even then, you can always come back online with a simple awareness and confession that you need more help through faith. YOU are God’s treasured possession and you need to let Him tell you and show you what that means ALL the time. Take HIM at His Word…..

Delight in ME, and I will give you the desires of your heart….Psalm 37:4

Blessings,

Susan

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ROOTS OF YOUR SELF IMAGE AND ITS IMPACT ON COMMUNICATION SYSTEMS

What does it mean to be mature? What does it mean to feel loved? What does it mean to have a true identity? These are all questions that you need to get in touch with and begin to look “into” if you want a healthier mind, body and spirit. Humans are limited in their understanding when they only rely on others ideas or interpretations of them for their self image. The persona that most people present to the public is not all there is to them. Many people are far different and have other “sides” to them in their intimate or close relationships. All humans have fears to be real and vulnerable.

As a therapist and former teacher, I have heard many times: “Well, you don’t know how they act at home.” This usually means that I am only seeing a part of the person’s character -the public or part they show to others. What others see at home may be an opposite side or at the very least, some parts that are not revealed in public. We are all pretenders in a strange sort of way. We either say what we think others want to hear or we say what others have said about us. We may also have created a totally false person that is either really “good and perfect” or one that is “bad and ugly.”

So, where do we get our self esteem? The truth is that humans get it from a lot of places but most are the roles they play or how they seem themselves through filters of others. Very few people understand that their true worth and value comes from the spirit realm that created them. God created everyone and only God gets to say that we are valuable and worth a lot. BTW, that IS what God says about all His Children (us). We are special and amazing in our spirits. God is not judging us by our behaviors first like humans do. So, if you first can understand how valued and loved you are by God and get that deeply planted inside you, you can begin to receive the truth of you.

Made in the image of God means something but only if you see it inside yourself. It has nothing to do with your who because it is a gift given to all. However, if you are not communicating with the Giver of the Gift and would rather take the opinions of others, God will let you out of love. He will not force himself on you …that would be unloving. He will invite you to look into His words about you and hope that you will communicate by letting in some of the light to raise your standards of yourself.

When you communicate out of your human worth based on performance or words of others, your communication will be mixed up….sometimes, healthy and sometimes not so good depending on who you are speaking with- is that the kind of inconsistent living pattern you want?

Up and down in frustration with others and spinning around in same old mad and sad thinking-tired of it? If so, check into the MURTURE system. This is a dynamic process that can strip off the veneers and get down into your spirit with true nurture! 

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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DECLUTTER YOUR INNER BEING WITH NEW LIFE THINKING

A big part of the Awakening to the Innocence of our Inner Being so the Higher Spirit of Pure Love can reconnect with us is decluttering. Just like our closets in our home, there is so much tucked away inside all adult humans, it is a process to clear it all out. You may not have any awareness of the negative things you continue to haul around that are taking up space. These negative influences wall off our clear thinking and bog us down in chronic overall stress or invade parts of us that block intimacy with others, self and God.

How do you know what is inside? You have to open the door. If you never look into a closet or open the door, you would have no idea what you have stashed away. When you begin looking at your outer behaviors that you would prefer not to have, you can be sure you have an inner box full of clutter that is driving that behavior. Or, when you have a mixed up mind that thinks in terms of resentment, anger, unforgiveness or other negative channels, you can be sure that you have inner clutter that needs resolve to remove the old associations.

I see all kinds of past traumas, grief and losses through my work as a therapist. People are carrying around all kinds of unnecessary STUFF that masks their true self and keeps them from healthy thinking. Apart from thinking well and in ways that go in the direction of your desires, you will behave or GO in all directions. In order to stay on course, or STAY the course you have set for your life, you must order and organize your inner mind, body, and spirit to all work with your desires.

HOW DO I DO THIS is a good question. It is not easy and you need help. Becoming more awake requires having Higher Power help in the form of a personal relationship with God. Along with that Powerful relationship, you get a benefit package. You are given new ways to think about all your problems and how to solve them. You are also given a new heart perspective that is guilt free and doesn’t condemn you or others which gives you more affection for God, self and others. You also receive a will that matches the will of God. You have an inheritance. You have gifts.

Once you begin living your life at higher levels of your OWN reality, you desire to become more real and transparent. Over time, you are able to express your own reality in loving and respectful ways. This will allow you to feel NO fear of making yourself vulnerable because living honestly is living honorably. The false coverings, masks and veneer are all removed. Being able to move around without fear or guilt cluttering your inner self frees you up to live out of other people’s plans for you.

MURTURE is the emergence of a higher self, a more mature self, and a very nurtured spiritual self that is able to fully fulfill the destiny planned for that self.

Blessings,

Susan

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MURTURE AND MAKING MATURE SPIRITUAL PROGRESS

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THINK OF MURTURE as a way to regain the life you were meant to have by finding your true self as you are made in the Image of God. The light of truth can be reconnected to your awareness and will start shining brightly inside out once you decide to explore your inner rooms. Transcendence means to go beyond the limit and surpass something. In the case of your spirit, it means to feed your true spirit so it can grow and be known fully by you as well as helping you connect in full relationship with God.

Begin to imagine a self fully loved and fully restored to your true design. It is a self that feels loved and is not operating in confused thinking or only operating out of your head instead of being connected mind, body and soul or spirit. It is amazing and you will love the JOURNEY to finding your true self to be the most interesting work you have ever done.

Blessings,

Susan

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TRUE SELF UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF DIVINE LOVE

We all have different human parents we did not choose. We all also have had teachers that we did not choose. There are many people that crossed your path and influenced you as a child that hurt you and made you feel less than loving toward your inner being. This is how the false self begins. Children do not know they are not the cause of someone else’s mood or reactions to them. Even if they have a sense of injustice, they will usually adjust their own way of being to cope with the “bigger” person and get in line with the way the adult needs them to behave. The children who do not do this are labeled as defiant or as though something is “wrong” with them for not fitting in. These circumstances happen to children over and over. The point is that they happened to you, too!

As you are reading this blog, you will probably think of many times when you were treated unfairly or received hurtful treatment as a child. Many of my clients will agree with that this happened to them BUT, will quickly follow up with a comment from their adult now that sounds like, “Yea, but I deserved that treatment. I was a bad kid.” OR, “Well, yes, I did get hurt a lot but I was too sensitive.” OR, “Yes, that did happen but my parents did the best they could.” OR, “Yes, but that was then and this is now.” Notice how these adult voices go right to taking on that it was their fault or they do not see any connection between what happened as a child and now.

Here is the deal! Everything that ever hurt us is in our cellular memory and is impacting us now. The way it impacts us now is through how we REACT when someone hurts us or treats us poorly in the present. It also impacts our nervous system and creates anxiety or depressive thinking. Another way that past wounds from childhood impact us is that we carry the mindset forever and think under that self instead of knowing who we really are at the core of our being. THAT BEING is our TRUE SELF> unfortunately, many people never uncover their true self or meet that being.

Living out of parts of self is not living out of a whole and integrated being. I maintain you cannot be fully alive in the spirit of you without claiming the impact of your human self from how others and how circumstances have impacted you. Yes, this requires introspection and looking into your inner being. Yes, it is a little work but it is well worth the time and energy. If you choose not to come alive to your true self, you will continue living out of layers of false beliefs set up under the influence of others. That self is not completely the real YOU!

Living under a whole self that is true and has been recovered out of the ruins of the past is the beginning of living maturely. When you are mature, you do not react out of childish ways or thoughts. You are healed from those and your can gain higher ways of living. MOST importantly, you will be able to access the Divine Love that was always waiting for you but could only be partly accessed due to the fears and guilt you were carrying. Those energies weigh you down or act like a yoke that burdens you and you see yourself and others falsely under its influence.

When you are living in truth from your inner being, you see into situations differently and you make new meanings from your spiritual nature. This allows light and love from God to come in and nurture the true you. Obviously, when you live under the truth and Divine Love given freely, you learn to always feel good about yourself (even when others are treating you badly). You feel more comfort and safety knowing God is supporting your growth now. You understand that you are seen as perfect and accepted just as you are and that you are growing up again under THAT HOLY influence vs. human criticism and condemnation. You feel heard and understood by God so you are free to share that with others without FEAR.

This creates inner honesty and sharing from the heart more transparently. 

These are just a few things that happen under the influence of Divine Love in connection with your TRUE SELF….for more ways on how you grow and feel this love, read my book, MURTURE and you can grow in infinite ways that just keep unfolding within you and are not dependent on circumstances

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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INTRODUCTION TO YOUR INNER CONDITIONS AND THEIR ROOTS

Imagine how many humans do not really KNOW who they are on the inside. They have an idea of an inner self but have never taken the time to really explore what is going on inside them. They typically rush out the door each day and head off to a busy external life reacting to all those situations outside themselves. When things don’t go well, they will typically blame others or take in on as their fault.

Very few people stop and inspect the inner conditions of their emotional or psychological state of being. Of course, many humans DO pay attention to their physical being and condition it with exercise, food and healthcare. However, this is not enough. It would be similar to just washing your car on the outside, changing the tires, and filling it with gas without ever letting anyone service the engine. Sound crazy? It would be AND it is. People are not looking under their “hood.”

This is the reason for so many humans wearing a VICTIMhood. They put in on or it is conditioned from childhood victim mindsets or victimizations of others and never taken off. Imagine wearing the same hoodie all your life? Silly stuff, but it is the way of our culture now. The roots of our inner conditioning actually determine the outer conditions we live with unless we take proactive measures to change our thinking about our inner self.

Thinking is the first step because it is so easy to condition the brain. Animal research shows that and many have written that how a person thinks influences his/her entire life. WELL, with that knowledge, it would be ludicrous not to inspect your mindsets and the inner conditions of your heart and soul, right? Your conditioned ways of thinking was learned! You did not come thinking terrible thoughts about yourself or others. That thinking was trained and ingrained along with thousands of other thoughts that formed mindsets that drive habits and all that is hard to change if you do not lift up the hood and look inside.

In my book, MURTURE,  I begin with a promise that if you will develop mature thoughts and feelings about yourself that come from how God (the Source of your Divine Design), sees you, you can get rid of pre-existing conditions that have overshadowed you as long as you have lived. By removing false beliefs under that hood of yours, you can find truth and believe in your lovely self over a combination of love/hate for yourself and others. Living out of ONE stream of influence is the best way to live. You find healing for old pain and how to treat all experiences of suffering you encounter. You will be able to stop hiding under the hood or some mask that others have asked you to wear.

MURTURE is a process that introduces you to your real self and attacks of roots of your lower self thinking that is cloudy and fear filled so you can begin living life at a higher level under that hood. You will feel connected inside to your true heart and soul all the time if you use this dynamic system. Your inner conditions of how you feel about yourself will shift to positive because they stream in from Divine Love that is pure and uncontaminated by stinking thinking from humans. This Pure Love works FOR you and not against you because it comes from Spirit that encourages your inner spirit to stay whole and not split or separate into parts to please others. Old lies and guilt thoughts or regrets and negative energies are removed as you move into the Present and the Presence of a Love that never leaves you feeling lonely or abandoned and rejected.

If this sounds too good to be true, try it before you discount it. What have you got to lose? You may have everything to gain and only lose all the TROUBLE you currently live with! Find your Inner Joy!

Blessings,

Susan

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