STEPS TO MERGE YOUR SELF IMAGE IN MORE BALANCED WAYS

Of course, you know that my blog is all about how to live your life in Higher Love and Awakening to your true self. YOU mostly likely also know that I have written a book about this process called, MURTURE. Murture is written to demonstrate not only the process of awakening but to share the ways I work with individual clients in my counseling practice to awaken to their true self. I go through a lot of steps in this book that help to clear out the old “stuff” that is blocking awareness of that higher and true self.

STEPS is a word that we usually think of in either a literal way, like going up steps in a building, or in a another way of taking steps to achieve a goal. Of course, I mean steps in a way to achieve a goal and that means progression toward a desired change or reaching higher. I also mean STEPS as a way of life. My word, STEPS, is an acronym for these words and their beginning letters: SPIRITUAL-THOUGHTS-EMOTIONS-PHYSICAL-SOCIAL. Those are the aspects of all humans that need to be in BALANCE, but are typically way out of balance in any individual’s life. For example, some people are so social that they never spend time alone thinking or contemplating their spiritual life. 

When you want to grow and make progress to live a higher and more balanced way of life, you have to be intentionally taking the steps in balance to do that so your mind and body work together to stay balanced. In that way, it is like taking literal steps when you first learned to walk. YOU were off balance and could not stand up very long. You had to learn how to balance yourself to make progress to walk before you could run or hop or skip or jump. There were steps that had to go in order and you fell down a lot but soon, you were able to do all things with good coordination and balance.

Living the Awakened and Enlightened life must be intentional and time must be taken to merge into one lane of balance so your self image tracks with perfect harmony from the Highest Power of Perfect Love. You will not be able to receive this power all at once because you need an Intimate relationship with yourself and God to give and receive this love. The more you do it, the more you learn to stay upright and grow into the process of awakening. It actually becomes quite “addicting” as you love yourself, God and others more and more. 

The first step is to set the intention to MAKE TIME  everyday to connect with this Perfect Love in some way. This can be through meditation or reading something that inspires you. It is also helpful if you journal and add affirmations that positively reflect the truth about you as God sees you. This is where sacred materials help because they are typically inspired by God and love. Getting quiet with God makes all the difference. Soon, you learn to shut out the NOISE….both the literal noise around you and the noise in your head that is confusing you or having you think poorly about yourself.

Why not begin today? There is no time like the present to give yourself the best gift ever…actually, it is a present…get present in the present and BE in ONEness with that Divine Love from the beloved. Remember to also check out all my videos on youtube to help you with all of these things.

Watching these videos or reading my Book called MURTURE is like getting free therapy!!!

I also have other topics that are helpful for awakening to living a better life and awareness of how to stop sleepwalking through your life. MY channel for the videos is linked in below….

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMzIbmpMu_BKBaxIH_5odMg

 Hope you enjoy watching these helpful Spiritual Awakening and self development videos!

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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LIFEHOUSE RESTORATION CHANNEL IS POSTING NEW VIDEOS

I am providing links below to check out my videos on youtube that help with topics from how to unmask your false self and grow into a Higher Self that connects to Divine Love and sets you free.

I have recently done a few videos on love and the difference between human love and spiritual love.

Watching these videos or reading my Book called MURTURE is like getting free therapy!!!

I also have other topics that are helpful for awakening to living a better life and awareness of how to stop sleepwalking through your life. MY channel for the videos is linked in below….

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMzIbmpMu_BKBaxIH_5odMg

 

 

Hope you enjoy watching these helpful Spiritual Awakening and self development videos!

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

Facebook (business): https://www.facebook.com/Lifehouserestoration-Counseling-Center

ASSUMPTIONS OF SELF BASED ON HUMAN NATURE AND/OR NURTURE

I continue to assist those hurting souls known as “humans” who keep trying to get free! What are they trying to get free from? Like you, anything and everything!! Humans spend excess amounts of time worrying and fearing about numerous things. Human thought if filled with endless thinking. As I have stated before, much of the thinking is stinking up other systems right inside of them.

Why? You may wonder why we (as a species) have so many confusing thoughts about ourselves and others. We all wonder and WORRY about these things. Typically, we do not find good answers to our questions because we end up in circles of thinking about the same old stinking things. The first thing to know is that judgment is the root killer disease that puts our thinking in DIS-ease. DIs-ease thinking just means full of anxiety and nervous thinking. We worry, we fret, we fear, we experience guilty thoughts and all sorts of automatic negative thinking clusters that stem from our judgments of God, self and others. We do it consciously and we do it unconsciously.

Where does all this dual nature energy thinking (thinking that does not produce good solutions that are fear free) come from? It comes from our human conditioning (how we are trained) and our human DNA. WE inherit this kind of thinking and try to make meaning from it. Of course, it will be impossible to completely gain truth from judgmental thinking as it is always based on the dual lines of human nature and nurture. If your human nature thinks negatively because that is how you were nurtured by the adults around you (which we all were raised by criticisms), you will always default to “fault finding” which is judgment. It will be based on experiences that were reinforced by others into your mind and how you interpreted it through your human nature. 

So, what is the answer? Are we stuck in a plight of fight or flight to always be battling to find the truth of who is right and who is wrong. The answer is yes and no. YES, if you choose to THINK you are stuck down there:) in lower levels of not knowing what you don’t know but thinking you do. However, NO, you are not stuck in a dual human think zone of judgment if you believe that you can rise above it. That is what enlightenment is all about . YOU begin seeking truth and love and desire to be living above the negative realms. It will not happen overnight but you will be put on a Seeking Path that is the road to find answers. It is the Journey into self and exploring your inner being. When you make this a focus, you are not in need to look AT others and explore what is wrong with them. YOU are too  busy MINDING and RE-MINDING your self that you can only change YOU and that happens inside out. When you make this Journey with the Perfect Love of God, you find out amazing things you did not know and could not know apart from this Partner.

Taking on Divine Love and reconnecting with the seeds of divine within you is a great way to unwind old conditions and to integrate into higher love and higher truths that set you free from all the human noise and confusion. Journaling your findings really helps offload some of the old labels and tapes of the past that no longer fit your thinking. Your heart opens to truth and the light comes shining forth. Old assumptions of self, God and others fall away as new nurture from a Mature Love of self (appreciating your amazing being) and of God (just being amazed by the Power of His Love) begin to make a huge impact as you awaken and come alive in the present to who you really are inside and in your spiritual nature.

I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to connect your newly formed thoughts to your body so the memories from human lines in your body can heal and cooperate to connect mind, body and spirit into one whole being that is deeply loved by God.

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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Self Image DEPENDS on WHOSE MIRROR YOU REFLECT

I have been posting so many new exciting thoughts from my book, MURTURE, which is all about how to achieve a higher spiritual nature that is mature and continuously growing to a more divine inner self. It is impossible to grow or even conceive of that inner being when you have a low or poor self image. You see, the Image of God in us is at the core of our worth and value. If we see our reflection as a “worm” or lowly being based on past behaviors, we can never measure up to see ourselves as God’s reflection.

Interestingly enough, this low image comes from OTHER humans and their ideas of you. We are all conditioned to see our image in the eyes of others. Therefore, we will all contain a flawed image of ourself and others. This is one of the major problems with humans. They walk around judging each other by behavior and physical perspectives and miss the inner divine essence in all of us. Layer upon layer of human devaluing and human disappointment leaves a human in distress dependent on others OR, a false self pretending to look good and perfect.

Neither a low self image based on others’ low opinions of us or a false pretending self made from ego is the answer to a spiritual being able to grow and develop through unconditional love. WE must first get the idea that our image is only based on God seeing us as HIS perfectly created being in spirit. That means inside all of us are the seeds of God’s Image. Getting inside and looking around at how God sees you is your JOB! If you choose not to see yourself in deeper ways, you will miss your true self and the beauty of your creation on this planet. You will not live your life to your full potential.

Begin to see yourself through the eyes of LOVE. The eyes of Perfect LOVE that will help you cast off the fears that you are not good enough. Let God Grow your image and reflection as His new Creature. God takes off the human tarnish, polishes you up, TRANS-Parenting you with LOVE that shines out from your new inner creature. YOU know you are loved no matter what others say or think about you. YOU begin to live from your REAL self with real potential for a greater life.

To understand more of this, please check out two awakening videos I have on You tube. YOU can access them through murture. com or through lifehouserestoration.com. The videos are talk about love and the spiritual path are numbers 10 and 11. Here is a link to #11.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H06jE6vvAlU

BLESSINGS….BEGIN LIVING A LIFE OF PURE LOVE AND JOY,

SUSAN

MURTURE, my new book has new videos on YOU TUBE-Check out these links

I am providing links below to check out my videos on youtube that help with topics from how to unmask….https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjr5_sdthj4

Or, other topics that are helpful for awakening to living a better life and awareness of how to stop sleepwalking through your life. MY channel for the videos is linked in below….

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCMzIbmpMu_BKBaxIH_5odMg

 

Hope you enjoy watching these helpful self development videos

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

Facebook (business): https://www.facebook.com/Lifehouserestoration-Counseling-Center

 

 

REFLECTIONS ON MY CHILDHOOD FROM MY LITTLE CHILD PERSPECTIVE

I write a lot about healing and thinking about the highest powers of positive connections between mind, body and spirit. While it is true that all three of these need perfect alignment in order for healing to happen, there is another factor that many people do not understand. In all of us, there are many memories from childhood stuck in an arrested stage of development. That means that what happened to you when you were 10 is still recorded in your subconscious memory.

When we have not updated our memory and brought our little child hurts and wounds of the past up to date, they can become activated by the same feelings of hurt in the present and behavior can become a re-enactment of the past FROM the same perspective as your little kid. This is why you see people over-reacting to silly things or making big deals of not feeling understood. Their little toddler is activated and has a yelling, stomping temper tantrum about the present incident. This happens all the time.

So, what is the solution for this? The solution is to go back and reflect on incidents from the various stages of childhood where you felt hurt and do some journaling about them. Ask yourself how you felt from the perspective of your little kid. If you get quiet and be still, you will hear the answer. I give instructions on how to do this in my book, MURTURE, in Chapter 3. The purpose for doing this is to give healing to the feeling that is arrested and underdeveloped or developed from a childish mindset. You can give nurture and love that will attend to the wound and bring in Spiritual Guidance to gain awareness of anytime you ever felt that way as a child. Once you take care of the past and update these times, your brain takes new pathways and brings more mature or healthy thinking to situations so they no longer bother you or “set you off” as they once did.

In addition, you can use the wasted time of spending energy fighting or avoiding on what you want to be doing and remain calm in the present. YOU will also gain the benefit of new space. Like a computer, old files take up negative storage space with information you no longer need or want. Updating your inner systems will bring integration and wholeness so you operate out of the oneness you are now. The new power you have gives you more energy and keeps you higher in conscious awareness to reflect on things from your true self.

Again, if you need more information on healing the past and why it is so important, go to Murture.com and watch some of my video links or read my book, MURTURE. I promise it will change your life to bring in this higher awareness that awakens your true self and the spirit within you.

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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LIVING FROM THE CORE OF THE TRUE SELF AS A BELIEVER RECEIVER

In my last post, I wrote that it is impossible to receive truth and love unless you are connected to the true self of your inner being. I will no doubt repeat that truth many times in my blogs. It is the essential component that most people miss on their Spiritual Journey to Deeper Knowing of God’s Love and the Path of Enlightenment. Many will build their spiritual house on top of world conditioning and labels of the past. Most people think you can just drop the past and let it go and move on to a more evolved future. While that is true, there will still be residuals left from the other humans walking around and over and on you:) that left muddy prints (imprints).

Apart from a dedicated process of letting go of the past imprints, human pride and other false selves still inhabit and are tempters for the “fowler’s snare.” That just means that there will be human temptations when we are triggered that will snare or snag us into entanglements with ourselves and others. Things like getting mad lead to arguments and quarrels where humans dump more blame and shame on each other. These are impossible to avoid without being grounded to your true self. You see, the TRUE SELF is REAL and has nothing to prove. It does not have to prove itself to any other human and certainly NOT to God!!!!!! The veil has been lifted and the FOGS of fear, obligation, and guilt that shame us are removed. KNOWING who you truly are at your core helps you rise above the fray of others.

The SHAME mask so easily deceives us in our believing self that we get confused and split into parts (part of me feels this way but another part of me feels that way type thinking). The confusing mind or brain will be easily duped and hijacked to be unable to receive grace and mercy, let alone unconditional love! It clogs and covers truth and all actions are taken from a more hidden zone of thinking than one of clarity and truth. God cannot fully shine out from our inner being when we are not in touch with our own inner true spirit.

Granted, this journey into our true self is a process. The main thing is to understand that fact AND also to know that you are deeply loved by the Highest Power of LOVE that exists from the ONE that created that power. When you have affection of that kind of “confection,” you know you are being cared for even when you cannot see how things will ever change. YOU understand that when you let go of what is not working, you are able to TAKE HOLD of the inner truth and promise that will work. YOU are sure that you are choosing a new life over the old, dead one that offers little hope of this kind.

The inner self or spirit of a person is made up of the vital forces and feelings within each one of us that need to be heard in mature ways and nurtured by just the right amounts of love and discipline. When we do not pay attention to these voices, they come out in childish ways and are reactive, just like children. The uniqueness of every true self in the inner being of that soul is truly amazing. Just as we all look different on the exterior, our interior self is very complex and uniquely made. That is why there is only ONE kind of love that will satisfy our longing to receive love so we can achieve our destiny has to be believed!!!!

In my humble opinion, we have only begun to understand the true identity of individuals as God sees them, and therefore, only God knows how to TREAT each of us WELL!

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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Without a True Self and Love for your Inner Being, There is No Real Truth

Life is very confusing much of the time. We are constantly shrouded in some kind of fear or guilt. This leaves us in an emotional state of unrest. Of course, the unrest will give us anxiety or some form of depression. This is because most humans do not know their real identity. Many are hiding behind the masks of conditioned love. That kind of love is dependent on behavior or works. Of course, no human has perfect behavior or works so they are constantly at risk for judgment.

Being under the influence of unsure of who you are can be very oppressive and co-dependent on others and their opinions. If you are a people pleaser, you will try to make yourself adapt to others’ wishes for you. If you are able to toss off others’ opinions, there is still plenty of judgment living inside  you from the past that will keep rising up from inner energy we call emotion. That emotion is reactive because it arises out of our subconscious or nervous system that remembers feelings from the past.

Gaining an understanding of HOW God sees you and WHO you are to Perfect LOVE (that is not judging your human behaviors as much as people think) is the way to get on a new track. It requires seeking God’s Love and connecting heart to heart with the ONE who created you. God has the map to your true self and He desires to connect through the heart, not through your behaviors!

Keep seeking that inner self and let go of how others see you in order to receive the truth in love that will set you free from spiritual adultery. When we value others’ opinions more than God’s, we are committing negative feelings to ourselves through a spirit that is adulterous and untrue. When God’s love shines through, you feel truth and you know you are not perfect, but you are perfectly loved in spite of your imperfections!!! This love will grow as you push out the old lies that drove the old behaviors.

It is such a joyous process to be living out of a self that is able to receive love!

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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ONLY LOOKING BACK TO CLEAR THE PAST PAINS

Many people spend their lives living in reverse. They keep looking back while trying to live in the present. This IS the human way. It is the way of polarity and keeps us thinking in fear and lack-lacking what was always lacking-not feeling good enough and not fitting in. Both of those human paths keep betraying us over and over. WE are living under an influence of negative vision set up for us by any humans from the past who did not, and could not, treat us fairly or preciously.

Living in the Present means living in the WHO you are now with the Presence of Knowing your true identity and what God’s Love is saying about you. Under this influence, you need only visit the past to clean the closets that you shut and stuffed with pains of injustice and woundedness. These closets have a way of pushing open when you do not want them to (like thinking negative thoughts or saying those things out loud to others). We call these projections because they project out from our dark closets and cause us to see through the filter of the past wound.

When you are no longer wound around a wound, you can keep yourself present and updated on your current status that you are rising above those past wounds. The Spiritual Life is about being able to mature under the influence of Holy and Perfect Love that casts our old fears and spells that keep you in bondage to them. Looking back to allow LOVE to heal fears and trusting in faith that LOVE will conquer all the old skeletons gives you a new frame or lens to see and envision the BEST future you can imagine.

So, clean out the wounds and negative treatments from the past one day at a time while keeping present in mind, body (heart) and spirit of the present. Listen to ONE voice….the highest voice that Resounds all loving SOUNDS because it comes from the SOURCE of All that is LOVE-God!

Journey back to the Home you came from in human from only to assess the damage done to your spirit, and begin to journey into an amazing homecoming of well-inner being arms. The arms of God WILL treat you as you were planned to be treated all along—as a Spiritual Being!

Blessings,

Susan

Website: http://www.lifehouserestoration.com AND http://www.murture.com

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