ATTRACTING THAT ABUNDANCE INSIDE YOUR DREAMS AND INNER DANCES

Have you ever noticed that we often say one thing and do another? Have you ever wondered what it is that makes us doubt we will ever get what we desire and dream about? If you have, please read on for further information.

I have written about how people believe and that many of their beliefs are false or operating from an older or past reality. If your beliefs aren’t aligned with truth, then your inner perceptions do not match your true intentions. Thinking of it another way: How you think must match all you desire and the music you “dance” to in your mind, body, and spirit must align 100%. If your vibrational energy thinks you would like abundance (in whatever category), but your inner being doubts and lacks the faith to believe you would be able to tune into that frequency, you are working against yourself and creating blind spots.

The things you desire will continue to elude you if you cast doubt and do not look at the right side of your desires. By right, I do not mean, as in the opposite of wrong. I mean to look away from the past screen of scarcity or lack and look into the right mirror of abundance and keep refocusing your thoughts and the way you speak in that same right direction (as in, right for YOU).

Observe yourself neutrally at first. Listen to your thoughts, actions, and speech. Do you think abundantly, act in an abundant manner and speak as though you were talking to yourself in the voice that is all pure, loving, and abundant (authentically believing what you are saying is heartfelt and true). You must broadcast a conversation to yourself that is neither of scarcity nor fear that “this won’t work.”

If you hear a discord within or a voice that does not match what you feel you desire, it is an old filter that is clogged and not telling you the truth. Your inner voice knows what you want, and it is up to you to clear out blind spots and open your eyes to what negative filters you are still using that are clogging up your one accord truth. By one accord, I mean your thoughts, your inner vocal chords and all that you are gives off the same vibrational attunement. It is like fine tuning your instrument (the inner sense of you) to be in harmony with what you desire.

Finally, you need to dance with that rhythm and invite resonance while making adjustments to tune yourself up to the Highest Perfect Pitch of you and what you desire. It is easy to get lost in the tangled web woven inside you, but if you listen to that inner voice of your spirit connected to the TRUE VOICE of a whole spirit or Holy Spirit, you will create a good feedback loop that tells you this is the real me I have been looking for….therefore, I am tuning into this voice holistically all the time-

Put this on a forever message track that you are unwilling to get derailed from the inner voice that speaks truth and gives new life into the dance of abundance in you.

Susan

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DANCING THE DANCES OF HIGHER AND FREQUENCIES FROM THOSE VIBRATIONS

One of the things I love best about being a Psychotherapist is the opportunity to meet so many interesting people, both professionally with other therapists and, my clients. The things I learn from these two sets of relationships are always amazing.

For example, last week, I was privileged to attend a Psychotherapy Conference with over 3000 other therapists and the top leaders in the field of psychology. This field is also drawing in other types of healers, such as yoga instructors, neuroscientists, energy healers, body healers, and so forth. This group of people collectively makes for a “crowd” of high energy and frequencies that speak loudly about how to care for hurting humans.

The energy I am speaking about dances about the room. There is a good vibrational feeling of aliveness that is not only connecting, but also contagious. There is joy, hope and all kinds of positive vibrations. There are research clinicians talking about LOVE in all new ways. Studies done in the last decade show all forms of human connections that are positive activate the same healing energy to our brain as long-term relationships. So, the next time you meet someone at the grocery store or on an airplane, whether for a micro-connection or a little deep, think of it as an opportunity to feed your body and your brain healthy energy.

This energy of positive higher vibrations does give the human brain a feeling of connection that actually “lights up” the brain and gives a frequency that sends waves of good energy throughout the body. Over time, these kinds of positive connections have actually proven to improve health and even autoimmune responses. Setting an intention to have genuine connections with other humans each day is like taking vitamins according to the research.

Once you have begun the intention and are experiencing positive interactions with others, begin to draw in that energy and feel the gratitude that you are much more able to think about positive interactions with others than to head out with a growl and a scowl each day. It may amaze you at who/what begins to show up in your life. You can rest assured that your own body inner dance will feel better and that you will live a longer and more enjoyable life.

 

NOW, SCIENCE IS PROVING WHAT MANY JOY-FILLED PEOPLE ALREADY KNEW:)

Susan

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GREATER HEIGHTS OF AWARENESS AND ADVANCING HIGHER THOUGHT FORMS

As you have continued opening up those inner fruits that are growing out of your letting go of the past hurts and allowing them to be fully healed by God’s love, you can expect greater heights of awareness.

As you observe yourself growing, assist with creating more space to be used for the new consciousness. There is not stopping the development of the Spiritual Life. It takes over the old places that were used for keeping trash you did not need. As you keep taking out the “trash” you no longer need and the “negative habits” that you once held so tightly. They were an illusion that you “thought” you needed to protect you. Letting them go gets you unstuck from the old ways.

Old ways are really brain stuff:), I mean, your brain was programmed to keep you safe when you were a kid…have fear, obligations, guilt and other automatic thought so you can get along in society. As an adult, you know how to be relational now, but it is the brain that hijacks you and takes you back to childish places and spaces you out. You wonder how come I did that crazy behavior? This is because you are awake to “crazy” now. You no longer want to drive in that lane.

You move onto a place that is peaceful and slows down the insanity of reactive changing lanes. That just means that you woke up feeling fine and some person crossed your path and there was a fight. That didn’t need to happen. You now know you can use the self-control that you have been given from the Spiritual realm to stop before things escalate. You didn’t used to think that way…your brain was trained in a fight, flight, or freeze animal brain.

Greater heights of awareness allow the consciousness of peace and at ease to rule as it comes from the realms of creating thought forms from the Higher Power. This is pure and unconditional love that does not want you to be harmed by the hate or race mindedness of the natural human state of being. Attacking others or accusing them and blaming them for your actions are unhealthy and you are awake to those thoughts. The calm behavior from spirit follows the new thought and forms clusters of fruit from these places.

It is exciting to be alive to see what each new day will bring. You can help by declaring your day and ordering in what you want. Process out the old and let the thing (s) that you desire become your reality in this new life.

Susan

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PASSING ON RADICAL FORMS OF LOVE FROM INNER SPIRIT AWAKENING

Last time, I wrote about how to accelerate the process of awakening and simplify it through the use of the inner fruit you are bearing. Those fruits, when used, in radical ways radically alter you until you are so new in mind, body and spirit, it is hard to believe the transformation.

Living out of this inner spirit you have cleansed of past torments with the help of your relationship with God has produced this newness. It continues to grow through using it by passing it along to others. Such a life is full of feeling well, empowered with courage and hope. This spirit connects with the lives of others in beneficial ways that encourages them to heal and have hope.

Loving using God’s love in unconditional ways is contagious to others. Few people live this way since it cannot be sustained in natural ways. However, when it comes from heartfelt love developed from your inner fruitful nature, it is so genuine and pure, it refreshes.

To love others as God loves us values and validates others over tearing them down or using them to get your needs met. Encouraging them to get free form old thinking patterns happens in the context of relationship. Relationships that are genuine and life giving are full of blessing. The blessing actually comes back to the giver in greater amount than it was given.

This kind of spiritual love is transparent and honest, however, you cannot pretend it or mask your own past or it loses its shine. Demonstrating love to others requires you to shine your own awakened light. This also helps your spiritual fruits grow. When the shining emanates from the divine, it is connected, like electrical circuitry. It cannot be manufactured or planned…it is spontaneous, but it is also moderate and keeps good boundaries.

Susan

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This is the beauty of the oneness of God’s love. It comes from Source, which is all perfectly powerful, present and knowing. The knowing is demonstrated by a kind of spiritual intimacy that comes alongside others. There is a desire to work in union with them while not taking responsibility for being their rescuer or caretaker. The love is not about creating a dependency on you so you get taken advantage of…that is the human form of giving. This transcends understanding but you know it when you have it. You see into the other person and let them see into you.

 

This beautiful relationship needs to be passed all around and it will change how we live in amazing ways.

SIMPLICITY OF SPIRITUAL GROWTH ONCE AWARE, AWAKE AND ALERT

As you continue the process of your spiritual awakening and rise above the old thought forms, you will begin to be amazed at how new perspectives on everything begin to take shape. As long as you are keeping yourself clear of those old anger, fear, and guilt patters, you begin to see that the more responsibility you take for treating yourself to good self care, you want to do that for others.

The process rolls out new opportunities to take positive actions for yourself and others no matter what the circumstances. For example, if another person wants to argue or blame you, you are not interested. It is not even a challenge to not defend yourself or argue back. Your thoughts seem to go down a new path of: “What would make me want to get myself all worked up over such a small thing?” Even when the “thing” is a bigger deal, you are more interested in declaring your truth and if the other wants to be combative or resistant in any way, you give them permission to have their opinion.

The only time you might get worked up into frustration is if it is a clear violation of your belief system or someone is pushing his or her idea of life over onto you. In those situations, do the best you can to keep a civil discussion going, but it still may be that they want to argue and take a stand that is clearly unhealthy for you to agree with (in that case, let it go). Many people will just begin to shut you out of their life if you do not agree with them. Let them go. You may want to pursue them one or two times, but you will soon see “those” kind of people are too wounded to know how to be relational. When you see reactive behavior from others, and especially, if they blame you for it, you will know they are broken and not interested in doing their awakening. Many times, the blessing is that they take themselves out of your life.

Being alert to opportunities with those who are seeking higher ways of relating out of the fruit of a spiritual walk is the way to simplify growth. These individuals are already in existence so look for them. Spiritual growth is simplified if you have others in your life that bring that positive energy and are also interested in becoming more aware of themselves and others.

Finally, be ready to be vulnerable with others. Remember, you are operating out of a new nature and the fruits of that spiritual nature are:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” (Galatians 5:22-23)

This means sharing the fruit even if others are not doing likewise. It is coming from the enlightenment inside of you, not your old thinking. New thought has formed the desire to stay in peace with self and others. It promotes simplicity when you think of it this way and the growth process is accelerated!

Susan

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ENLIGHTENMENT PURIFIES AND CLEANSES THE PAST THROUGH LOVE’S PROCESS

People ask me all the time how to grow higher in their Spiritual Walk and how to gain new ways of thinking. Actually, the new thinking is not as hard as getting rid of the old thought forms. People seeking a new life and more positive ways of living are in grave need of removing the toxic “dumps” of their past.

To begin a whole new way of living present with oneself in the present and gaining continual higher awareness means that the process of purifying and cleansing old systems requires thorough cleansing. Just like the physical body, the mind needs a detox of old ways of thinking. Most people know that as you think, so you are. The problem is not awareness of that truth. The problem occurs in getting new thoughts to take root and remove the old ones.

REMEMBER, it is a process. Waking up does not happen overnight. You did not get the buildup of old thoughtforms overnight and they will not be removed quickly either. Letting your mind agree with the truth that is already within you is called enlightenment. Becoming aware that you know what you like and you know how you would prefer things to be is a matter of accepting that you must trust yourself to not fear taking the steps to believe enough in your self to allow your own thinking to command your self over the commands of others.

When you were a kid, you had to have others commanding your moves, as you were not old enough to be trusted to know what to do next. Now that you are an adult, you are responsible TO KNOW. Many people really do not want to take responsibility for their own actions. They prefer to blame others as to WHY they cannot take charge and become accountable for living the life they say they want. Hopefully, you are not type of person. If you are, purify and cleanse all shaming and blaming of others. It is NOT their FAULT that you do not live as you desire.

Owning and taking command of our thinking and knowing that it is up to me to change my negative thoughts is the best first step in processing out the old stuff. Most of that old stuff is back from another time and another life (under the roof of your parents or teachers or whoever told you what to do and how to think). Purify your thoughts and ask yourself if the new thoughts you are thinking are really what you want. If they are, cleanse them and take ownership while removing blaming and shaming thoughts about others.

Check all resentment harbors: If you have any resentment from the past, clean them out. They harbor toxicity and work against getting the life and love you desire and they are not spiritual. Love and harmony produce more serenity and peace, which is the kind of safe harbor you need to set sail and find your dream life.

 

Think I am talking crazy? No problem. You have a choice to believe it or NOT:)

Susan

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KEEP WALKING IN AWAKENED AWARENESS LOOKING FOR LOVE’S DESIRE

When we look and seek, we will find. If I am not intentional about finding what I am looking for, or worse yet, I do not even know what I am looking for, I will open myself up to finding nothing. Or, I may find things happening I do not like.

Attending and paying attention to the things I love and looking for the desires of my heart calls for me to stay awake and aware of what I already possess. What I possess is most likely a container of positives and negatives. IN order to remove the negatives, I must stop being negative. Negative attracts negative.

Trance walking or walking around in a fog is not awake and you bump into things you don’t like or things that can hurt you because you were not looking where you were going. Opening your eyes to an awakened state of being means that there is awareness of the positive and negative. In a trance, you are not able to fully put all your energy into the positive so both negative and positive continue to exist.

Awakening to enlightenment means I like the positive and let in more positive light because it is what I like. Since I know I like positive, I am willing to stay aware of what those things mean to me. I am positive about my kids and my family because they mean a lot to me. When I treat them negatively, I am most likely attracting more negative energy from them and to them. Bonding with negative forms of energy is not healthy. It works like smoking. You are breathing toxic fumes.

When I focus on the things I desire and love, I treasure them. I treasure all the people I love so I desire to treat them well and bless them as much as I am able. I also treat my possessions and all that has been given me respectfully. This does include money, BTW. Money is a form of love because we use it for all the things we desire and love. It must be treated lovingly and respectfully. (Greed is not respectful)

Walking in the Spiritual life brings in a form of divine awakening and awareness that creates a desire to love all things and people. There is no desire to harm or hurt or treat disrespectfully because it is enlightenment and wisdom that comes from a Higher Being that give renewed mindsets and thought forms that you never thought of before. When you stay awake and walk in these new ways, you become a new creature full of loving desires and you will attract the desires of your heart…

DESIRES FROM AN AWAKENED PURE HEART ARE ALL POSITIVE (IMHO)

Susan

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AWARENESS OF LOVE IN NEW WAYS MEANS THAT LOVE IS ALWAYS RENEWING

A NEW month has begun. It is March and the NEW year marches on. Things are always moving along, but many times we let them march by unaware of their passing. Soon, time and years get away from us and we lose touch with self and loved ones.

Living life present in the present with awareness of what is happening each day is hard to do without intention. WE have to operate in new ways that kind of go against our human nature. WE tend to want to kind of sleep walk and go through the motions, especially in doing those things that we hate, dread, bore us, or are just routine. Of course, we all feel those ways, but the switch to going through the motions tends to over ride the switch to noticing things in the present.

Humans tend to live life in the past or the future, always wondering “what if” about times past and times ahead. What if I had only done this or that? What if this or that happens tomorrow or next year? These kinds of questions beg worry to set in and anxiety to build up to fear and panic levels. The only way to combat those ways of living is to live life aware of all that is lovely in the present.

Awareness of love in new ways means finding attitudes of gratitude for all you do have and not focusing on what you DON’T have. As a matter of fact, notice and love and renew all your appreciation for the life you have right now. Make that a focus. Along with that, learn to love the Giver of those Gifts. The Giver of all that is good is God.

Then, allow all that is “not so good” or needs improvement or is causing you angst or problems, be turned over to God to improve and renew. God is great at renewing things. He will even renew people in ways you cannot imagine. The lack of renewal does not come from God. It comes from people who ignore God or complain all the time about their lack so they sow into more lack and limit God’s blessings.

Trusting in God to change and dynamically improve all you lack is the WAY to experience a renewal in your life. In order to do that, however, you must reorder your priorities. This just means that you live in the present and present requests to God while appreciating what you do have. Don’t be anxious about ANYTHING, and keep repeating the process of staying awake. Watch for signs of change whether it is in attitudes of others or situations that are less than joyful. Keep watching and thanking and staying in the present while trusting that the future is being renewed.

As far as thinking about the past: Only do that if there is a wound that needs healing and is blocking your ability to be thankful and asking without doubting. If you have doubts and fears, they need to be taken out and cleared so you have room for more faith in the renewal process of your present situation or circumstances.

STAY PRESENT WITH THE PRESENCE OF THE GIVER OF LOVE

Susan

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ENLIGHTENED IN KNOWING LOVE

Yes, I write about enlightenment and awakening to higher forms of consciousness in mind, body and spirit. Yes, I write about awareness of self and the relationship between God and self. Yes, I believe we are all called to a higher form of living than we are currently experiencing. Yes, I believe that call is coming from a Voice of Love. Yes, I believe the Voice of Love will tell you the truth about yourself and others.

Of course, I could go on and on about what I believe, but it wouldn’t matter much because who am I? I am no one famous or well known outside of my circles of work, family, and a few larger connections. But, really, I am not known in famous places. I have credentials and degrees and influences in my work and family that are very important, but most of those people are not known to be famous either.

However, I am KNOWN by God. I am very well known by my Creator. This is what is most important to me. This way, I am known and I get to be known in ways that I have never known before. By the way, new knowing’s happen each day with this Number One Important Relationship. Love is knowing and being known. Since God is the Author of Love, it is very important to be enlightened in knowing the One who created love and created me out of that Love.

Can you grasp what I am saying? God says we are known as His Children. God says we can know His Voice and hear it to let us in on higher truths. Wow, is that really true? God says to test Him and take Him at His word about this. When you are in a personal relationship with this kind of Power, you are in connection with fame. This fame knows all, sees all, and has all the Power ALLTHE TIME. Most people don’t believe this because they don’t believe God is WHO He says He IS.

I would rather take a chance that everything I hear form God is a lie than to believe the lies of humans that I see acting pretty crazy sometimes. They do not seem to be acting in loving ways and then seem to blame God for when things go awry. I say to myself, “Why would I want to doubt God and believe a human over God?” I am placing all my bets on God and going “All In” for the unconditional Love to be my central influencer.

Therefore, I am going with the Author of Love so I can be more perceptive, aware, and understanding of the beloved (which includes all the crazy people who say God is dead, mean, angry, or just isn’t personally interested in their lives). We can know the love that God has for us if we will take time to get to KNOW Him personally, not through someone else’s idea of God. Rely on the fact that God knows how to love and will teach you how to do the same, AND all the rest of Love will be added that comes from that relationship.

 

Don’t take my word for it, take God at His Word and He will Enlighten you:)

Susan

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“ACTING OUT” IN LOVE VS. ACTING OUT OF LOVE

In my job as a therapist, I see many clients do what behavioral psychologists call, “acting out.” The clinical definition of acting out in my line of work is displaying any kind of behavior that acts out unhealed or untreated emotional pain. Performing such actions usually show up as out of control behaviors that are acted out on impulses, up to and including addictions. In general terms, the behavior or actions are usually destructive to self and others. They are often used in immature ways and continue to block more constructive responses to the repressed feelings.

Some of the work I do in therapy is treatment for people acting out sexually to garner attention or through behaving promiscuously. Many of my clients and others who act out this behavior day after day, week after week, or throughout a lifetime pattern think they really “love” the others they act out with. Of course, most of the time, there is no true or long lasting love so they move on to another person to act out with (who has a form of the same problem). This kind of behavior is known as the confusion of sex, love and relationship addiction.

People who continuously are looking for love are most often those who do not know how to love themselves or who do not feel worthy of authentic love and relationship. Divine Love is the only real love because all unconditional love comes from the Divine Designer of Love.  Realizing this fact even dimly is the first step in any healing treatment or program (such as 12 Step Programs). There is always a need to know the Higher Power Creator of love and to bond with your own inner loving self before you can act out of Real Love.

If you want to receive any benefit from your Spirituality, you must practice the ideals of Divine Love that gives unconditionally…to you, as an individual first and then, you are able to pass it on with pure intentions. Express it in every word you speak, at your job, in business transactions, in all relationships and in all areas of your life.

Most people will tell me they would like to do that, but it is too hard. They will even say it is impossible to treat others well when they have wounded them. I get that. I am human and I agree. That just makes it all the more amazing when you do see someone loving the unloving or someone acting out OF love from the love they have received from God. It is called “pay it forward,” or “passing it on.”

Imagine if we all were able to trust that one small step to begin these loving practices in word, thought, and deed. Imagine how the world could change if we began to operate in that kind of loving harmony and stopped the noisy talk about love or the acting out behaviors that are called love and we really started applying true love with no strings or ulterior motivations attached.

IMAGINE!

Susan

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